Wednesday 12 October 2016

IS SHE DESPERATE, INSECURE, IGNORANT OR JUST HAVING FUN???

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So, i have this female friend, a few months older than i am.
She is in 'relationships'...(not in 'a relationship'), and what do i mean by that?
She is going out with 9 guys currently...not new to you?

In a long distance relationship with three of them,
In an online/social media relationship with two of them,
and the rest stay close to her!

She has always found herself in tough situations. An example was a sunday, after i came back from church and finished all i knew i necessarily had to do, she came to my house, and we strolled outside the compound. Then she saw one of her boyfriends, an igbo guy, across the road coming towards her, she sighted another yoruba boyfriend standing almost close to us, when the igbo boyfriend got to our side, after exchanging pleasantries, i looked over and saw the curiosity on the face of the yoruba boyfriend. He was probably thinking, 'who is that guy getting all over my gf???'


I wanted to excuse myself from her and the igbo boyfriend, but she drew me back.
After the igbo bf left, i asked her why she drew me back, she said her elder sister was at the junction and she didn't want to get caught or questioned, then i told her was going back home, and she headed towards the other bf's direction.

After i got home, i pondered over her decision, her sister will be getting married in two months' time, and she said she's gonna invite THEM ALL??? I wonder how she's going to handle everything on that day.

So my question is, why did she chose to date 9 guys, does she feel that if she gets heart-broken by one, another is gonna be on her side, or is she just having fun???

TODAY'S Q/A POST: HOW DO OTHER AFRICAN COUNTRIES VIEW NIGERIANS?

Source: Quora.com